Tuesday, March 12, 2013

THE VAGRANT KIDS

I recently rediscovered something I wrote one day back on September 8, 2008, on a forgotten blog site. After successfully recalling and entering the password today, I stumbled upon this particular blog entry. Reflecting on the experience that prompted me to write it is truly nostalgic. Allow me to share a passage that resonated with me:

My Encounter of Two Vagrant Kids on my Commute to Work (Sep 8, 2008)

For nearly a year now, my mornings have been spent commuting to work without sufficient resources to replace my worn-out car. It's been challenging, requiring adjustments like arriving earlier due to relying on public transportation. Moreover, navigating through heavy traffic near the construction site of a flyover halfway along my route adds to the difficulty.

One morning, after rushing through my morning routine, I waited in vain for a taxi to get to work on time. The early hours were scorching hot, with the sun already blazing in the 8 a.m. rush. Unfortunately, luck wasn't on my side as no taxi approached. Instead, I opted for a tricycle to take me to the jeepney terminal. At the terminal, I patiently waited for additional passengers to fill the seats on both sides of the jeepney. Finally, the engine roared to life, and we began our journey.

Seated on the far right, I found myself lost in thoughts, occasionally daydreaming and stealing a moment of rest. As we traveled about a kilometer, I glanced over at the school where my 9-year-old daughter attends. She had risen earlier than I, managing to reach school on her own. I couldn't help but wonder what she was doing in her classroom at that moment. It saddened me to think about her having to switch from a good but costly school due to our current financial constraints. The same situation applied to my second child, now in second grade. When I asked her how things were going, she lamented that her classmates struggled with English pronunciation. I reassured them both that we hoped to return them to their former school next year when our situation improved.


As the jeepney approached the construction site of the flyover, it slowed down, forcing me to exercise patience. Near the intersection, I noticed two young, dirty children, approximately 4 and 7 years old, a girl and a boy, respectively, trying to board the jeepney. The boy carried a tin can to drum for money from passengers. Initially repelled by their odor, like others, I kept my distance while the driver shooed them away. In my mind, I wondered where their parents were and felt a sense of disdain.

However, as I looked closer at the little girl, she met my gaze with innocent eyes that reminded me of my own two-year-old daughter back home. In that moment, I was overcome with pity, realizing it was not their fault to be born into poverty.

Shortly after, the frustrated driver scolded the children again, urging them to find another jeepney. The boy defiantly reached into his pocket, pulled out his hard-earned money, and insisted they could pay. This only provoked the driver further, who snapped back, "Keep your money. How can you afford to pay when you can barely eat?" There was a brief silence.

Looking around, I saw passengers of all ages and backgrounds who seemed indifferent to the children's plight. Moved to help in my own small way, I reached for some change to give them. However, before I could, they had already leaped off and onto another jeepney, disappearing into the crowded streets.

The jeepney crept along the bustling streets at a sluggish pace. Suddenly, it paused longer than expected in front of the mall, presumably to pick up more passengers. Anxious about being late, I was about to urge the driver to move on when I spotted the two children across the street once more. It struck me then that these little ones faced far greater hardships than my own, yet they bore their struggles without complaint. This poignant realization transported me back to my own childhood.

I grew up in a neighborhood where poverty was a daily reality for many children, who became my playmates. I vividly recalled accompanying them with a sack slung over our shoulders, scouring villages for tin cans and plastic to sell at junkyards. My mother often wondered where I earned my money from. While some viewed these children as societal nuisances, they were simply trying to survive. They weren't begging out of choice but necessity, to eat and live, just like any of us. The stark contrast between their struggles and the extravagant lifestyles of the affluent people I encounter through my work was glaring.

Many of these wealthy individuals live in opulence, often spending beyond their needs. Meanwhile, these poor children survive hand-to-mouth, learning to beg at a tender age. The disparity troubled me deeply. I wished that even a fraction of the wealth enjoyed by the affluent could go towards sheltering the homeless, comforting the sick, and feeding the hungry, especially children like the two vagrants I encountered that morning.

I longed to help, but my current means were limited. If only I were wealthy, I thought, I could make a significant difference. Yet, I prayed that wealth, if it ever came my way, wouldn't blind me to the needs of others, as cautioned by Jesus in the Bible. His words from Matthew 19:23-24 echoed in my mind, reminding me of the pitfalls of wealth and the importance of compassion: "Verily I say unto you, that a rich man shall hardly enter into the kingdom of heaven. And again, I say unto you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God."

These words served as a sobering reminder. If I were to become wealthy, I prayed I would use it wisely, not for self-indulgence or vanity, but a fraction of it should help uplift the less fortunate.

Let's have a heart to these little ones because their innocence teaches us how to become a child of God.

Luke 18:15-17
"People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they sternly ordered them not to do it. But Jesus called for them and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is such as these that the kingdom of God belongs. Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it."

Matthew 18:1-5
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, " Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a child, whom he put among them, and said, "Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me."

The truth remains: we are not solitary beings in this world. It is populated with fellow humans like us, each striving to survive. In this regard, we are no different from those little kids I encountered. We navigate our paths through life, seeking what we need to sustain ourselves. Some find prosperity, while others struggle. But amidst our pursuits, have we ever paused to reflect on how our lives have become consumed by the pursuit of money?

Take a moment to look back at the trail we've blazed. Do you see the clutter? It accumulates as we race through life, often forgetting that it's not about reaching the finish line first. The journey itself holds more significance than the destination.

One harsh reality we face is that from the moment we become aware of our existence on this earth, we also acknowledge our eventual mortality. Our journey through life is about living, while its end serves as our ultimate destination. Thus, winning the race becomes inconsequential; what truly matters is how we live our lives.

There is no greater and nobler pursuit than taking time to consider others and share what we have. The joy and fulfillment derived from such acts nourish our souls. For while worldly riches and prestige may fade, the spirit endures.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

THE SECRET


In early 2013, specifically on February 21st, I find myself reflecting on my progress towards achieving my life goals and dreams. Looking back over recent and distant days, I see that my journey has been slow-moving. This sluggish pace can be attributed to my lack of focus or perhaps a misguided outlook on life.

Reflecting on the lyrics of a song from 1993, when I was around 25 years old, "25 years of my life and still, trying to get up that great big hill of hope, for a destination," rings true. Now, in 2013, with 45 years behind me, I find myself still navigating that tricky hill of hope towards a meaningful destination. It's a sobering reality when I consider the accumulated debts and general state of my life.

While I possess an old car and a newly built house, their presence seems overshadowed by the burden of financial indebtedness. It feels like I am inadvertently enriching the banks while depleting my personal resources and savings. It's the unfortunate reality of our time, a reliance on loans and credit cards to attain our desires, ensuring the survival of financial institutions.

Lost in this maze of financial strain, I wonder how I can find a way out. Perhaps the solution lies somewhere in the vast expanse of the universe.

"Embarking on the journey to personal freedom entails liberation from various aspects of life. This includes overcoming financial struggles, repairing damaged personal relationships, finding fulfillment in one's career, achieving optimal health, and escaping feelings of hopelessness or loneliness. Many ponder why some individuals thrive in success and happiness or attain wealth effortlessly. These fundamental questions demand concrete answers, driven by our innate desire for a different reality, a change in our thoughts and emotions.

As Albert Einstein famously stated, 'We cannot solve problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.' This profound wisdom underscores the need for transformative change in our perspectives.

Recently, there has been buzz about a concept called 'The Secret.' Several years ago, I purchased a DVD copy of it but found myself nodding off halfway through. More recently, my wife acquired the book, intending for our children to learn from it, though they are still too young to fully grasp its concepts. Eventually, I rediscovered the book among old volumes in our home and began reading it during breaks at work or lunchtime. Gradually, I've begun to grasp its essence."

The "Secret" reveals itself as the "Law of Attraction," a concept that resonates with me on a profound level. As I delved into its teachings, several key insights emerged:

Like attracts like
Thoughts of a certain nature attract similar thoughts. In essence, my thoughts act as magnets, drawing corresponding energies from the universe.

Thoughts possess frequency
Every thought emits a specific frequency. These frequencies project outward, attracting similar frequencies or manifestations back into my life.

I am in control of my thought frequency
Similar to a transmission tower, I have the power to alter my thoughts' frequencies. By shifting from negative or undesired frequencies to positive ones, I can manifest changes in my reality.

Thoughts shape my future
My present thoughts are the architects of my future experiences. What I consistently think about, with strong emotional intent, materializes in my life, the principle that thoughts indeed become things.

In essence, the Law of Attraction underscores my role as a creator of my reality through the thoughts I nurture and project into the universe.

To manifest my desires effectively, I can follow these steps


Focus on persistent thoughts
Continuously summon what I wish to experience through my thoughts.

Incorporate positive emotions
Attach positive feelings to my thoughts; feelings indicate the frequency I am emitting. Good thoughts naturally evoke good feelings. When negative thoughts intrude, I shift focus by recalling pleasant memories, connecting with nature, enjoying music, or savoring delicious food to maintain clarity in our desires.

Harness the power of love
Love represents the highest frequency attainable. The more profound our love, the greater the potential to manifest our desires.

Utilize a structured approach
Similar to teachings found in the Bible or the Creative Process, I can follow three key steps: asking specifically for what I desire, believing in its attainment through actions, speech, and thoughts as though it is already mine, and actively receiving by feeling the reality of having achieved my desires. This process transmits my desired frequency to the universe, inviting corresponding manifestations.

The Law of Attraction operates on the principle that thoughts are energetic forms. When transmitted into the universe, they tap into higher forces, triggering events and aligning circumstances to bring my desires to fruition. This concept mirrors principles found in quantum physics, where energies combine and resonate to create unified outcomes.

Avoid these pitfalls


Negative framing
Refrain from using negative statements such as "I don't want to be poor" or "I don't want to be fat." Instead, state your desires positively, such as "I want to be wealthy" or "I want to be fit and healthy."

Expectation
Focus my expectations on what I truly desire rather than what I wish to avoid.  


Other Tools and Principles


Gratitude 
Expressing gratitude for what I already possess attracts more positive experiences into my life. Giving thanks in advance for what I desire accelerates its manifestation by sending a powerful signal to the Universe.

Visualization
Creating clear mental images of my desires generates powerful thoughts and emotions of already having them. This clarity allows the Law of Attraction to respond swiftly and effectively to my intentions.

How to Attract Wealth Using the Law of Attraction

Achieving financial abundance is a primary goal for many, including myself. Here are key principles and steps to attract money and wealth:

Focus on wealth, not scarcity
Direct my thoughts towards wealth itself rather than the lack of money.

Utilize imagination and belief
Engage my imagination fully and feel the joy of already possessing wealth.


Visualize ownership
Intend to possess what I desire and cultivate the feeling of already owning it. Quickly shift my focus to feeling positive about money.

Embrace the paradox of giving
A widely believed secret is that the more you give, the more you receive. Approach giving with an open heart and avoid feeling as if something is being taken from you. The Law of Attraction rewards generosity with abundance. As stated in the 2nd Letter of Paul to the Corinthians 9:7, "Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver."

Cultivate a wealth mindset
Consistently visualize wealth and align my actions with my passions to make acquiring wealth feel effortless.

On Relationships


My inner desires, reflected in my thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings, should align harmoniously.

It all begins with self-respect and self-love. When I treat myself with kindness and respect, I naturally attract individuals who mirror these qualities.

Avoiding self-criticism is crucial, as negative self-perception only perpetuates undesirable situations. This negative frequency influences what I attract from the universe, adhering to the principle of reaping what I sow.

Instead, focus on embracing and celebrating my positive qualities and strengths. By doing so, the Law of Attraction reveals even greater aspects of myself.

In my interactions with others, emphasizing their strengths and positive qualities fosters deeper connections. It's beneficial to concentrate on what we appreciate about them rather than dwelling on their shortcomings or grievances.

On Health


The "Law of Attraction" operates on the principle of mind over matter, influencing our well-being in profound ways:

Placebo Effect
Belief in a treatment's efficacy, even if it's just a placebo, can lead to remarkable healing outcomes. This demonstrates the Law of Attraction in action.

Focus on Optimal Health
Directing my thoughts consistently towards perfect health is essential.

The Power of Laughter 
Laughter is a potent antidote to negativity, releasing stress and promoting overall well-being.

Avoiding Illness Talk
Refrain from discussing illnesses or listening to others talk about them, as this only amplifies the energy associated with illness. Instead, initiate conversations centered on thoughts about good health or maintaining a healthy diet.

Positive Aging
Shift focus away from societal narratives about disease and aging. Negative messages contribute to feelings of depression and anxiety. Instead, concentrate on thoughts of health and eternal youth.

I emphasize these aspects; wealth, relationships, and health, because their presence is crucial for achieving success and happiness in life. Each plays a pivotal role in our overall well-being and fulfillment.

Moreover, proponents of the "secret" liken the "Law of Attraction" to the impartiality of the law of gravity, a precise force of nature. While the true testimonies of those who have applied this law are compelling, it remains worth exploring. I personally had an experience that I attribute to it, which I'd like to share.

My Testament

One morning in the early 1990s, when I was in my mid-20s, I found myself wandering near Fuente Osmeña Circle, heading towards Capitol building, in Cebu City, Philippines, with no particular destination in mind. I had recently resigned from a job after only ten months. Then I turned to a corner, I looked up and saw a signage or logo on the wall, atop a building that caught my eye. I paused, feeling an inexplicable pull, and instinctively thought to myself, "Someday, I will work there." At the time, it seemed like a fleeting thought, and I continued on my way.

A few days later, a company sent me to Manila for a six-month on-the-job training stint. As time passed by, around more than a year later, I pondered why I was still there. Then, while reading the Manila Bulletin, I came across a blind item about a company hiring additional staff. Seizing the opportunity, I promptly submitted my application.

Events unfolded swiftly. Soon I found myself facing a panel of executives for interviews. Little did I know, I was one of 67 applicants vying for just one position. Against the odds, in September 1995, I started working at the company's offices in Robinson's Galleria Building, Quezon City. To my astonishment, the company's logo was identical to the one I had noticed years earlier in Cebu City. Was this the realization of my wistful thinking? Not quite yet...

Upon regularization, I was transferred to another unit in Makati. Barely three years working in that unit, there was a company-wide structural reorganization. My position was in jeopardy since one of units to dissolve was the unit where I was assigned. I was one of those asked to consider resigning by signing an offer sheet. The Staffs' Union advised us to sign only if we truly intended to leave.

Having recently married and with a baby to support, the prospect weighed heavily on me. Despite maintaining outward calm, the situation churned my stomach with anxiety. What would happen next? Was this end of my job and my wistful thinking?
Far from it. As they say, be careful what you wish for, because sometimes the universe grants it exactly as you desired.

One December morning in 1998, I found myself standing in the exact spot where a couple of years earlier I declared a serious wish looking at the logo in the building, here, in Cebu City. As I looked up, there it was again, the same signage atop a building. This time, however, I didn't entertain another wistful thought. Instead, I gazed at it with a mix of emotions, took a deep breath, and quietly affirmed to myself, "Today marks my first day working in this branch. Thank God I still have a job."

Consider this a coincidence, but it undeniably happened to me. Whatever orchestrated these events, I always attribute it to the workings of the "Law of Attraction." I don't believe my spirit alone could have foreseen such inklings or feelings about a glimpse of my future.

The Law of Attraction influences people and shapes circumstances according to my thoughts, playing a pivotal role in my success, contingent upon the sincerity of my intentions.

The Bible imparts wisdom on faith, hope, love, compassion, purity of intention, forgiveness, prayer, and humility. Jesus, as the embodiment of God's likeness, exemplifies this understanding, granting us relative freedom and the power to shape our destinies. This freedom is a profound responsibility, given the human capacity for sin and conflict, which could lead to my annihilation, yet also empowers me to create scientific breakthroughs that improve my life.

It all sounds too good to be true. Yet, I live in a modern world where the once impossible is rapidly becoming possible. The 'Law of Attraction', too, finds validation in the intricacies of nature at the quantum level, suggesting that my thoughts and intentions may wield more power than I ever imagined.

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